How Do You Remember Lost Loved Ones At The Holidays

How do you remember your lost loved ones at the holidays?  My family will visit my Mother's grave and light a candle for her, although it has been 13 years since her passing We still miss her as if it were yesterday what a wonderful woman she was.  For my children all 7 of them who will spend another Christmas with Jesus, I light a candle in their memory and although I grieve for them and wonder what it would be like with them in our family unit on Earth, It Amazes me that in such a short time they were with me they accomplished what god had set forth for them to do before taking them home back home to him. Gods GRACE is AMAZING and I thank him for every second I had with them.  MERRY CHRISTMAS and GOD BLESS..